JUST LOVE...!
Would you like to try something that has the potential of altering all your relationships for the better? Start loving for no rational reason. Ignore all your reasons not to love. Just love. Keep loving for as long as you want. See if you can maintain this love feeling while encountering the limitations of other human beings. Set a boundary, and love. Say, "No," and love. Disagree with someone and love. Problem solve with someone you have difficulty with and love. You will learn that you are capable of loving in spite of the limitations around you. You will learn that loving can bring about positive changes that otherwise would never occur. And you will learn the peace and joy that comes with loving.
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(WORDS COPIED...)
Monday, September 27, 2010
Only the ego can be touched. It is very touchy. If somebody just looks at you in a certain way, it is touched. He has not done anything. If somebody smiles a little, it is touched; if somebody just turns his head and does not look at you, it is touched. It is very touchy. It is like a wound, always open, green. You touch it and the pain arises. A single word, a single gesture -- the other may not even be aware of what he has done to you, but he has touched it.
And you always think the other is responsible, that he has wounded you. No, you carry your wound. With the ego your whole being is a wound. And you carry it around. Nobody is interested in hurting you, nobody is positively waiting to hurt you; everybody is engaged in safeguarding his own wound. Who has got the energy? But still it happens, because you are so ready to be wounded, so ready, just waiting on the brink for anything.
You cannot touch a man of Tao. Why? -- because there is no one to be touched. There is no wound. He is healthy, healed, whole. This word 'whole' is beautiful. The word 'heal' comes from 'whole', and the word 'holy' also comes from 'whole'. He is whole, healed, holy.
Be aware of your wound. Don't help it to grow, let it be healed; and it will be healed only when you move to the roots. The less the head, the more the wound will heal -- with no head there is no wound. Live a headless life. Move as a total being, and accept things.
Just for twenty-four hours, try it -- total acceptance, whatsoever happens. Someone insults you, accept it, don't react, and see what happens. Suddenly you will feel an energy flowing in you that you have not felt before. Somebody insults you: you feel weak, you feel disturbed, you start thinking of how to get your revenge. That man has hooked you, and now you will move round and round. For days, nights, months, even years, you will not be able to sleep, you will have bad dreams. People can waste their whole life over a small thing, just because someone insulted them.
Just look back into your past and you will remember a few things. You were a small child and the teacher in the class called you an idiot, and you still remember it and you feel resentment. Your father said something. Your parents have forgotten, and even if you remind them, they will not be able to remember it. Your mother looked at you in a certain way and since then the wound has been there. And it is still open, fresh; if anybody touches it, you will explode.
Don't help this wound to grow. Don't make this wound your soul. Go to the roots, be with the whole. For twenty-four hours, just twenty-four hours, try not to react, not to reject, whatsoever happens.
If someone pushes you and you fall to the ground -- fall! Then get up and go home. Don't do anything about it. If somebody hits you, bow down your head, accept it with gratitude. Go home, don't do anything, just for twenty-four hours. And you will know a new upsurge of energy that you have never known before, a new vitality arising from the roots. And once you know it, once you have tasted it, your life will be different. Then you will laugh at all the foolish things you have been doing, at all the resentments, reactions, revenges, with which you have been destroying yourself.
Nobody else can destroy you except you; nobody else can save you except you.
You are the Krishna and you are the Jesus.
(copied)
And you always think the other is responsible, that he has wounded you. No, you carry your wound. With the ego your whole being is a wound. And you carry it around. Nobody is interested in hurting you, nobody is positively waiting to hurt you; everybody is engaged in safeguarding his own wound. Who has got the energy? But still it happens, because you are so ready to be wounded, so ready, just waiting on the brink for anything.
You cannot touch a man of Tao. Why? -- because there is no one to be touched. There is no wound. He is healthy, healed, whole. This word 'whole' is beautiful. The word 'heal' comes from 'whole', and the word 'holy' also comes from 'whole'. He is whole, healed, holy.
Be aware of your wound. Don't help it to grow, let it be healed; and it will be healed only when you move to the roots. The less the head, the more the wound will heal -- with no head there is no wound. Live a headless life. Move as a total being, and accept things.
Just for twenty-four hours, try it -- total acceptance, whatsoever happens. Someone insults you, accept it, don't react, and see what happens. Suddenly you will feel an energy flowing in you that you have not felt before. Somebody insults you: you feel weak, you feel disturbed, you start thinking of how to get your revenge. That man has hooked you, and now you will move round and round. For days, nights, months, even years, you will not be able to sleep, you will have bad dreams. People can waste their whole life over a small thing, just because someone insulted them.
Just look back into your past and you will remember a few things. You were a small child and the teacher in the class called you an idiot, and you still remember it and you feel resentment. Your father said something. Your parents have forgotten, and even if you remind them, they will not be able to remember it. Your mother looked at you in a certain way and since then the wound has been there. And it is still open, fresh; if anybody touches it, you will explode.
Don't help this wound to grow. Don't make this wound your soul. Go to the roots, be with the whole. For twenty-four hours, just twenty-four hours, try not to react, not to reject, whatsoever happens.
If someone pushes you and you fall to the ground -- fall! Then get up and go home. Don't do anything about it. If somebody hits you, bow down your head, accept it with gratitude. Go home, don't do anything, just for twenty-four hours. And you will know a new upsurge of energy that you have never known before, a new vitality arising from the roots. And once you know it, once you have tasted it, your life will be different. Then you will laugh at all the foolish things you have been doing, at all the resentments, reactions, revenges, with which you have been destroying yourself.
Nobody else can destroy you except you; nobody else can save you except you.
You are the Krishna and you are the Jesus.
(copied)
Friday, September 3, 2010
A Patheticcc Journey...!!!
Hi, Im back with some horrible experiences...in my pocket. I realy feel irritated about our system. Dont understand why people cal it as system when it is not a system. Everything is corrupted here...nothing is fair..nothing you find in white colour....!
Hmmmm...let me come to the point...!
Last week had to go to Bangalore from Mangalore. Booked sleeper seat in "SEA BIRD" bus 6 days before. Got last seat...& god's grace didnt forget to confirm if that seat is good. The very next day mornin i had 2 attend training @ Bangalore. when i went there on the given date & time, here comes the real pathetic experience of me...!
As expected at the given time bus came...named.. SEA BIRD.. I went searchin my seat, which was in last row. I can never forget in my life my experience in tht bus on that day. I had paid 400 Rs. for tht night journey, & they had given me a seat, where water was leakin as if some1 is pourin from upside. Entire bus was stinking like anything. unwashed stinkin bedsheets, ful bedbugs biting you in your jouney....ufffff....horrible.
well, i asked them about othr seat, the people who should be responsible for this bus, didnt know that the bus is leakin when it was a small river inside. !!! & at last the answer was, if u can come, come or else cancel the ticket. How responsible people they are...!. Have to give award for their service. We trust these people & their bus for some emergency commitments & these people are so careless that, they dont even know that they have to give value for the money what they collect...
Then as i had no choice i took one sitting seat,, which was infront of tht sleeper seat...(which ofcourse didnt have pushback)...& choosed to spend one night in SEA BIRD hell.
whole night, water was pouring on me like anything, bed bugs wer biting here & there, swellin on legs, hands bcz of that, stinking smell...& even there was nothing like ladies seats. They had given some seats to gents near ladies ....uffff...horrible journey it was.
Need not mention, it was not only my seat which was leakin, but all but in small. I was the victim for this worst experience...& even none of the seater seats had proper pushbacks.
Whatever may be their problem, when they take money and book the ticket, they have to disclose what problem their bus has got. After all they are not giving the service free of cost. I wish, none of them wil go for this experience,,,& want to give one advertisement about this company to help them either to reduce their business or learn to to be more responsible.
How such people can be so irresponsible i dont understand. When you dont understand the values in life, u have to sit behind four values,. Pleas never come out to trouble others. Business in the form of service has to be with some values. if you are not able to respect your duties and your customer, why the hell you should be in business...why the hell you should have bread with the customers money !!!???
Hmmmm...let me come to the point...!
Last week had to go to Bangalore from Mangalore. Booked sleeper seat in "SEA BIRD" bus 6 days before. Got last seat...& god's grace didnt forget to confirm if that seat is good. The very next day mornin i had 2 attend training @ Bangalore. when i went there on the given date & time, here comes the real pathetic experience of me...!
As expected at the given time bus came...named.. SEA BIRD.. I went searchin my seat, which was in last row. I can never forget in my life my experience in tht bus on that day. I had paid 400 Rs. for tht night journey, & they had given me a seat, where water was leakin as if some1 is pourin from upside. Entire bus was stinking like anything. unwashed stinkin bedsheets, ful bedbugs biting you in your jouney....ufffff....horrible.
well, i asked them about othr seat, the people who should be responsible for this bus, didnt know that the bus is leakin when it was a small river inside. !!! & at last the answer was, if u can come, come or else cancel the ticket. How responsible people they are...!. Have to give award for their service. We trust these people & their bus for some emergency commitments & these people are so careless that, they dont even know that they have to give value for the money what they collect...
Then as i had no choice i took one sitting seat,, which was infront of tht sleeper seat...(which ofcourse didnt have pushback)...& choosed to spend one night in SEA BIRD hell.
whole night, water was pouring on me like anything, bed bugs wer biting here & there, swellin on legs, hands bcz of that, stinking smell...& even there was nothing like ladies seats. They had given some seats to gents near ladies ....uffff...horrible journey it was.
Need not mention, it was not only my seat which was leakin, but all but in small. I was the victim for this worst experience...& even none of the seater seats had proper pushbacks.
Whatever may be their problem, when they take money and book the ticket, they have to disclose what problem their bus has got. After all they are not giving the service free of cost. I wish, none of them wil go for this experience,,,& want to give one advertisement about this company to help them either to reduce their business or learn to to be more responsible.
How such people can be so irresponsible i dont understand. When you dont understand the values in life, u have to sit behind four values,. Pleas never come out to trouble others. Business in the form of service has to be with some values. if you are not able to respect your duties and your customer, why the hell you should be in business...why the hell you should have bread with the customers money !!!???
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Just a thought...
I dont understand some of the tragedys of life. those who dont have kids die for them. those who have...how easily neglet them. there are somew so called ' husbands' who dont even give one day of peace to that poor lady, who gies with him, but never ever listen to any of the woman, sayin 'im a man'!!! I really some times get so many questions in my mind, who s there to teach them. there are hundred's of such man's in our society, bcz of whom, so many women, innocent children are suffering with their silent tears daily. even parents of such men, do not accept them. they are just quit for nothing people who never understand another persons feelings or pain,,,!
hmmm,,,,I really hate such people. sometimes fel like, i have to change them but know, that its not possible...:(
hmmm,,,,I really hate such people. sometimes fel like, i have to change them but know, that its not possible...:(
ಶಾಸ್ತಿ..!
ಪಟ್ಟಣದಿಂದ ಹಳ್ಳಿಗೆ ಬಂದಿದ್ದೆ ನಾ ರೈಲಿನಲ್ಲಿ..,
ಹಳ್ಳಿ ರಸ್ತೆಯಲ್ಲಿ ನಡೆಯತೊಡಗಿದೆ ಸ್ಟೈಲ್ ನಲ್ಲಿ
ಜನರೆಲ್ಲಾ ಮಗ್ನರಾಗಿದ್ದರು ಕೊಯ್ಲಿನಲ್ಲಿ..,
ಅದ ನೋಡುತ್ತಾ ನಾ ಬಿದ್ದಿದ್ದೆ ಬಯಲಿನಲ್ಲಿ..!
Saturday, July 10, 2010
Some of the Golden words...I believe in...!
" If you dont act on life, life has a habit of acting on you...!"
"Be a person of your word.., rather than being, all talk & no action."
"We first make our habits, then our habits make us..!"
"All Are Always Right...!"
" Accept.., Appreciate.., Do not Reject"
Accepting means-->> Not being judgemental. Staying neutral. Not getting disturbed.
Do not reject anybody...just uplift them..just accpt them... just respect them..!
ಸಿಲ್ಲಿ-ಬಿಲ್ಲಿ..!!!
ಕದ್ದು ಹಾಲು ಕುಡಿಯುತ್ತದೆ ಬೆಕ್ಕು...
ಕಾರಣ ಅದು ತನ್ನ ಹಕ್ಕು..,
ಎಂದು ಅದು ಭಾವಿಸಿಕೊಂಡಿದ್ದರೆ...
ಅದಾಗುತ್ತದೆ ಅದರ ಸೊಕ್ಕು..!!!
ಕಾರಣ ಅದು ತನ್ನ ಹಕ್ಕು..,
ಎಂದು ಅದು ಭಾವಿಸಿಕೊಂಡಿದ್ದರೆ...
ಅದಾಗುತ್ತದೆ ಅದರ ಸೊಕ್ಕು..!!!
ವಿಪರ್ಯಾಸ...!
ನಾಗರೀಕತೆಯ ತುದಿಯಾವಸ್ಥೆ...
ಎಂದು ಹೇಳುವ ಮತ್ತಿನಲ್ಲಿ..,
ನಾಗರೀಕರ ಅವಸ್ಥೆ,
ತಪ್ಪಿ ಹೋಯಿತು ವ್ಯವಸ್ಥೆ...!
ಹೀಗೊಂದು ಪಾಠ!
ನೆನಪುಗಳ ಮಾತು ಮಧುರ...
ಎಂದರು ತಿಳಿದವರು..,
ನೆನಪುಗಳೇ ಅಜರಾಮರ,
ಎಂದರು ಅನುಭವಸ್ಥರು...
ಈ ನೆನಪುಗಳೆಂಬ ಹಲವು theoryಗಳಿವೆ,
ನಾವು-ನೀವುಗಳ ಮಧ್ಯೆ...
ಎಂದಿಗಾದರೂ ಇವು ವಾಸ್ತವವೇ
ಎಂಬ ಸ್ವಗತ ತರ್ಕಕ್ಕೆ ಇಳಿದೆ..
ನೆನಪು ಎಂಬ ಒಂದು ಪದವು...
ಸಾಯಹೊರತವನ ಉಳಿಸಬಲ್ಲುದು..
ಕೆಲವೊಮ್ಮೆ ಇದೆ ಪದದ ಹಿಂಸೆಯಲ್ಲಿ,
ಬದುಕಿರುವವನ ಸಾಯಿಸ ಬಲ್ಲುದು..
ಹೀಗೆ ಸಾಕಿದ ನನ್ನ ತರ್ಕವು,
ಕೊಟ್ಟ ಉಪಸಂಹಾರ ಹೀಗಿತ್ತು..
ನಾಳೆಗಳ ಸುಖಕಾಗಿ ಇಂದಿನದನ್ನು ನೋಡು..
ಕಳೆದು ಹೋದ ನಿನ್ನೆಗಳ,, ನಿನ್ನೆಗೆ ಬಿಡು...!!!
ಹೃದಯದ ಮಾತು...!
ಮರೆತೆನೆಂದಷ್ಟು ಮತ್ತೆ ಮತ್ತೆ ಬರುವುದು...
ನಿನ್ನದೇ ನೆನಪು..,
ಹ್ರದಯಾಂತರಾಳದಿ ಸವಿ ನೆನಪಾಗಿರುವುದು...
ನಿನ್ನದೇ ಛಾಪು..,
ಉಳಿದಿದೆಯೊಂದು ಪ್ರಶ್ನೆ ನನ್ನೆದೆಯ ಮೂಲೆಯಲಿ
ಉತ್ತರವ ಕಾಣದೆ...
ಉದುರುವ ಪ್ರತಿ ಕಂಬನಿಯೂ ಕೇಳುತಿದೆ...
ನಾನೆಲ್ಲಿ ತಪ್ಪಿದೆ..,
ಜೀವದ ಗೆಳತಿಯಾಗಿದ್ದೆ ಅಂದು...
ನಿನ್ನ ಪ್ರೀತಿಯೇ ನನ್ನ ಉಸಿರಾಗಿತ್ತು...
ಹತ್ತು ಜನ ಹತ್ತಾರು ಮಾತಾಡಿದರು
ಪ್ರೀತಿಸಿದ ಹೃದಯ ನಿನ್ನನೆ ನಂಬಿತ್ತು...!
ನಮ್ಮ ಸಾವಿರ ಸುಂದರ ನೆನಪುಗಳು,
ಕನಸು ಮನಸಿನ ತುಂಬೆಲ್ಲ ತುಂಬಿದೆ...
ಮುಚ್ಚಿ ಹೋದ ಹಲವು ಕದಗಳು,
ನಿನ್ನ ದಾರಿಯ ಕಾಯುತ್ತಿವೆ...
ನಾನಂದು ಮಾಡಿದ್ದು ಸಣ್ಣದೊಂದು ತಪ್ಪು,
ನೆಪವಾಯಿತು ನಿನ್ನ ಕಳಕೊಳ್ಳಲು...
ನೋವಿತ್ತೂ ನಿನ್ನ samaadhaanisadaade ...
ಮೌನವಾಗಿ ನನ್ನೆದೆ ರೋಧಿಸುತ್ತಿರಲು...
'nee ಮೋಸ ಮಾಡಿದೆ' ಎಂದೇ ನೀ...
ನನಗಾಗಿ ಕನ್ನೀರಿತ್ತು ಅಂದು...
ಧುಖದ ಮದುವಲ್ಲಿದ್ದರೂ ಮ್ouನವಾಗಿದ್ದೆ,
ನನ್ನ ಪ್ರೀತಿಯು ಕೈಬಿದದೆಂದು...
ಸೋತು ಹೋದೆ ಗೆಳತಿ, ನಿನ್ನ priithiyalli,
ಬದುಕನ್ನು ಗೆಲ್ಲುವ ಉತ್ಸಾಹದಲ್ಲಿ...
ತಡೆಯದಾಗಿರುವೆ ಉಕ್ಕಿ ಬರುವ ಕಣ್ಣೀರನ್ನು,
ಕ್ಷಣ ಕ್ಷಣಕೂ ಕಾಡುವ ನಿನ್ನ ನೆನಪಿನಲ್ಲಿ...
ಕಾಯುತಿರುವೆ ಗೆಳತಿ, ಮತ್ತೆ ಆ ದಿನಗಳಿಗೆ,
ಪ್ರೀತಿ ತುಂಬಿದ ನಿನ್ನ ಮಡಿಲ ಸೇರಲು...
ಕೊನೆಯುಸಿರೆಳೆವ ನನ್ನ ಕೊನೆ ಗಳಿಗೆ...
ನಿನ್ನ ಮಡಿಲಲ್ಲೇ ನಿನ್ನ ಪ್ರೀತಿ ಗೆಲ್ಲಲು...!!!
Thursday, July 8, 2010
ಚುಟುಕು...
ಅರಬ್ಬೀ ಸಮುದ್ರದ ದಂಡೆ...
ಅಲ್ಲಿತ್ತು ಒಂದು ದೊಡ್ಡ ಬಂದೆ...
ಬಂಡೆಯನು ಇನ್ನೂ ಹತ್ತಿರದಿಂದ ಕಂಡೆ...
ಆಗ ತಿಳಿಯಿತು ನನಗದು ಯಾರದೋ ಮಂಡೆ...!!!
ಅಲ್ಲಿತ್ತು ಒಂದು ದೊಡ್ಡ ಬಂದೆ...
ಬಂಡೆಯನು ಇನ್ನೂ ಹತ್ತಿರದಿಂದ ಕಂಡೆ...
ಆಗ ತಿಳಿಯಿತು ನನಗದು ಯಾರದೋ ಮಂಡೆ...!!!
Friday, June 25, 2010
salary for no sweat...!!!
One thing is true. as facilities increase, as people declare themselves as more developed they become more lazy.
Everytime i experience this. Two dayz back went to a bank for making a demand draft. As usual, the same case there too. I was filling slip in a hurry as i had to post it immedietly. Suddenly one lady was standing there holding an application in her hand, asked me if i could help her. She was not able to read & understand english. Though i was in hurry, I couldnt say no to her and filled her application keeping my work aside. Immedietly after her one more lady for drawing cheque asked my help. She was a lady from village and illeterate too. I told her to wait for two minutes & gave my slip in the counter and came back to help her.
Like this, many times i have seen same type of cases infront of me, poor illiterate people begging for help and waiting hours together to fill a small slip. I wonder whats the job of the employees over there and how can they tell an illeterate to fill that application or slip as it should be done with much care.
When these people asn with strangers to fill t, there s all the chance of these strangers doing fraud. Banks are developing literaly, but this is the sad part of our development. Instead of providing service to the customer, they dont have the patience to listen to the customer reactions and they dont even try to understand their problems.
Why do they take the salary, if they cant help a customer to fill a small slip, which is not even one minnute work for them. Is this is a way of giving services? I feel, Self satisfaction is more important to them than, customer satisfaction. good pay, good facility...and what not...!!!
BUT WHY...? No one bothers..!!!
Everytime i experience this. Two dayz back went to a bank for making a demand draft. As usual, the same case there too. I was filling slip in a hurry as i had to post it immedietly. Suddenly one lady was standing there holding an application in her hand, asked me if i could help her. She was not able to read & understand english. Though i was in hurry, I couldnt say no to her and filled her application keeping my work aside. Immedietly after her one more lady for drawing cheque asked my help. She was a lady from village and illeterate too. I told her to wait for two minutes & gave my slip in the counter and came back to help her.
Like this, many times i have seen same type of cases infront of me, poor illiterate people begging for help and waiting hours together to fill a small slip. I wonder whats the job of the employees over there and how can they tell an illeterate to fill that application or slip as it should be done with much care.
When these people asn with strangers to fill t, there s all the chance of these strangers doing fraud. Banks are developing literaly, but this is the sad part of our development. Instead of providing service to the customer, they dont have the patience to listen to the customer reactions and they dont even try to understand their problems.
Why do they take the salary, if they cant help a customer to fill a small slip, which is not even one minnute work for them. Is this is a way of giving services? I feel, Self satisfaction is more important to them than, customer satisfaction. good pay, good facility...and what not...!!!
BUT WHY...? No one bothers..!!!
Monday, June 21, 2010
Im a Human...!
Surprised...? Yea,,,This is the sad part of people. They have forgotten that, they are humans. they just know tht they are indians, Pakisthani's, Americans, & so on...! Again they know very well tht they are Hindus, christians..& so on. In each country again divisions....
They are expert in deviding!!! you know, bec of deviding atoms...( i dont know exactly as im poor in chemistry :P) they have the most destroying atom Bombs! They have believed that DEVIDE V wil be strong :P we wil win and all thos estupid things.
I feel Irritating with this people & feel y these people cal them selves as educated bugs...!!!
This is a thing/ arguement going on between my own classmates in famous F.B & even orkut..tht, my place is best!!! One came to Mangalore for two years from Mysore Stayed here for two years, & went. Now his so called statement is Mangalore is worst wherein he canot see a plant, water & many things...like bla blas..!!!!
I really dont know how much of Mangalore he has seen in two years but im here from many years & i know its one of the best place. But i dont argue on this,,, because its both Mysore and Mangalore is in Karnataka & most important is we are all Indians...
Why stupid people fight on such small things i really do not understand. If you hav the taste of enjoying the beauty of nature okie enjoy it, If not, leave it. If possible try to contribute something instead of deviding Mangaloreans & Mysoreans. We are Indians and we are humans. Its the people who lived before us devided different places for their convenient for administration which badly turned for fights.
If this the fact; dear all so called graduates, you need to go back to schools once again or else sit with your Mom to understand who you were when you came here, & where u going to @ last. U didnt even come from india, & not even gonna to stay in India. You are just a human,,,an animal,,,a living being,,,who is here to fulfill your duties assigned by god...!!!
They are expert in deviding!!! you know, bec of deviding atoms...( i dont know exactly as im poor in chemistry :P) they have the most destroying atom Bombs! They have believed that DEVIDE V wil be strong :P we wil win and all thos estupid things.
I feel Irritating with this people & feel y these people cal them selves as educated bugs...!!!
This is a thing/ arguement going on between my own classmates in famous F.B & even orkut..tht, my place is best!!! One came to Mangalore for two years from Mysore Stayed here for two years, & went. Now his so called statement is Mangalore is worst wherein he canot see a plant, water & many things...like bla blas..!!!!
I really dont know how much of Mangalore he has seen in two years but im here from many years & i know its one of the best place. But i dont argue on this,,, because its both Mysore and Mangalore is in Karnataka & most important is we are all Indians...
Why stupid people fight on such small things i really do not understand. If you hav the taste of enjoying the beauty of nature okie enjoy it, If not, leave it. If possible try to contribute something instead of deviding Mangaloreans & Mysoreans. We are Indians and we are humans. Its the people who lived before us devided different places for their convenient for administration which badly turned for fights.
If this the fact; dear all so called graduates, you need to go back to schools once again or else sit with your Mom to understand who you were when you came here, & where u going to @ last. U didnt even come from india, & not even gonna to stay in India. You are just a human,,,an animal,,,a living being,,,who is here to fulfill your duties assigned by god...!!!
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Girl who will be a homemaker...!
Dont know to quote examples from Purana's or epics...or of any great people. I have a small world of my own thoughts from where im borrowing my thoughts...& quotes.! thing to say is
I was i mean when i was in my childhood, was argueing a lot. whateva may be the topic, fact or whoever it may be. I use to analyse things on my own judgements and uderstandings. most important thing was i was feminist and atheist too. My arguement was not that God doesnt exist but it was he is not good, so I hate him. It was not a emotional or imitating behavior but was rational too.
I use to argue why God has made the girls situation like this. why all the hurts, all the pain and all the difficulty of the world is only for woman. despite doing so many works, despite undergoing so many hurts, she is the one who will be exploited by men at the end of the day. why this favourtism by the God for his own children...: This was one of my arguement...!
Well, now let me tell why i was a feminist...!
Till me reached 19...I was hating guys to the core...!!! I have seen the women who undergo so many hurts still keep a smile on their face...! As daughter she has her own responsibilty in home. If her parents send her for education, she s lucky enough but can not hope so. She has the obligation to learn most important thing that is cooking...Unlike guys she canot think of freedom in her environment. after that she has to undergo all the pains for attaining her gift of being a mother. all the pain has to be borne by her with silent tears & awaiting the pleasant feeling of being mother...
Though she gets in to marriage it wont be so easy for her to face. again there are so many customs blindly followed by the male dominant society who s not ready to understand her feelings. On facing everything, with lotz of hopes, lots of dreams Girl becomes homemaker...!
But... what she gets there...? She is the one who works for maximum hours a days and sleeps for a very little time in night...! but no complaints, she does all her duties in a silent smiling sweet and soft way...who cares about her pain..? who cares about her feeling? who cares about her illness? "NO ONE" . Everybody in home thinks okie, this is what s her duty. She is there for this.
But what about her...? If her husband goes out for work, she wil wait for his presence again in home with all the hope and care. if somebody falls ill, she does all the care for them. she dont even think of herself...the only one person in this world who is selfishless is its "mother"
it may be your mom or wife,,,she gets up early in the morning becoz, she knows that you have to be there @ office by 9....and she dont want you to go by empty stomach. evening she will be ready with smile on her face to cheer you up though she has done so many works.
She is the one who takes all care of children & her husband...But sad part is that, she never gets anything in return. the person called husband, dont even think that he need to show his love & care to her. he just takes how much ever he can! becoz...its his fundamental right...! from birth he did the same and how can he understand that his woman needs rest or need to be loved.
he only thinks...okie, its becoz of me she lives. im everything. I dont have to care her as she depend on me...! they think they are strong. from birth till death, a very small amount of difficulty they face & they say "im strong" then what women should tell? A man can hit a person strongly...more forcefully than a woman. But, a woman can bear & digest hardest of pain but a man can not!!!. She is the one who experiences highest pain...which shows that she is physically strong and its her mental power which makes her strong.
@ last....though a girl is so strong by psychologically & physically she is the one,,,who sacrifices most in life. who just keep on building her dreams palace...but never gets them realised...!!!
Isnt it partiality of God...???
I was i mean when i was in my childhood, was argueing a lot. whateva may be the topic, fact or whoever it may be. I use to analyse things on my own judgements and uderstandings. most important thing was i was feminist and atheist too. My arguement was not that God doesnt exist but it was he is not good, so I hate him. It was not a emotional or imitating behavior but was rational too.
I use to argue why God has made the girls situation like this. why all the hurts, all the pain and all the difficulty of the world is only for woman. despite doing so many works, despite undergoing so many hurts, she is the one who will be exploited by men at the end of the day. why this favourtism by the God for his own children...: This was one of my arguement...!
Well, now let me tell why i was a feminist...!
Till me reached 19...I was hating guys to the core...!!! I have seen the women who undergo so many hurts still keep a smile on their face...! As daughter she has her own responsibilty in home. If her parents send her for education, she s lucky enough but can not hope so. She has the obligation to learn most important thing that is cooking...Unlike guys she canot think of freedom in her environment. after that she has to undergo all the pains for attaining her gift of being a mother. all the pain has to be borne by her with silent tears & awaiting the pleasant feeling of being mother...
Though she gets in to marriage it wont be so easy for her to face. again there are so many customs blindly followed by the male dominant society who s not ready to understand her feelings. On facing everything, with lotz of hopes, lots of dreams Girl becomes homemaker...!
But... what she gets there...? She is the one who works for maximum hours a days and sleeps for a very little time in night...! but no complaints, she does all her duties in a silent smiling sweet and soft way...who cares about her pain..? who cares about her feeling? who cares about her illness? "NO ONE" . Everybody in home thinks okie, this is what s her duty. She is there for this.
But what about her...? If her husband goes out for work, she wil wait for his presence again in home with all the hope and care. if somebody falls ill, she does all the care for them. she dont even think of herself...the only one person in this world who is selfishless is its "mother"
it may be your mom or wife,,,she gets up early in the morning becoz, she knows that you have to be there @ office by 9....and she dont want you to go by empty stomach. evening she will be ready with smile on her face to cheer you up though she has done so many works.
She is the one who takes all care of children & her husband...But sad part is that, she never gets anything in return. the person called husband, dont even think that he need to show his love & care to her. he just takes how much ever he can! becoz...its his fundamental right...! from birth he did the same and how can he understand that his woman needs rest or need to be loved.
he only thinks...okie, its becoz of me she lives. im everything. I dont have to care her as she depend on me...! they think they are strong. from birth till death, a very small amount of difficulty they face & they say "im strong" then what women should tell? A man can hit a person strongly...more forcefully than a woman. But, a woman can bear & digest hardest of pain but a man can not!!!. She is the one who experiences highest pain...which shows that she is physically strong and its her mental power which makes her strong.
@ last....though a girl is so strong by psychologically & physically she is the one,,,who sacrifices most in life. who just keep on building her dreams palace...but never gets them realised...!!!
Isnt it partiality of God...???
Saturday, June 19, 2010
Friday, June 18, 2010
Saturday, June 12, 2010
I always wanted to be a voice for those who cant speak...the topics which cant be discussed....the problems which canot be solved...!
but all my thoughts didntmatch with the profession or way 2 profession which i choose. i think this is a better platform for me to express myself on all things as per my wish, as this is my page. very soon im gonna start my writings on some issues..very closely related with the society, people, justice, values, lifestyle, classes. community, politics...& the like...!
welll,,,,lookin for the time of begining of my fight....and my war...!!!
but all my thoughts didntmatch with the profession or way 2 profession which i choose. i think this is a better platform for me to express myself on all things as per my wish, as this is my page. very soon im gonna start my writings on some issues..very closely related with the society, people, justice, values, lifestyle, classes. community, politics...& the like...!
welll,,,,lookin for the time of begining of my fight....and my war...!!!
ಮಳೆ ಸ್ಟಾರ್ಟ್ ಆಯಿತು...
male start aytu....eno kushi,,,adre,,,adenoo digilu...! swalpa gaali beesithu,,, maneyolagella tampu tampu...adredeno bhaya..
evagalu ade...kattale horagade..amavasye dina bere...jorag male bartaa ide,,,gaalinoo beesta ide...currentoo illa...hmmm,,,aadast bega chochaaa evaga... onderadu bedsheet hodkondu, nande aad sundara kanasugal lokadal bechchage malagtene...!!!
evagalu ade...kattale horagade..amavasye dina bere...jorag male bartaa ide,,,gaalinoo beesta ide...currentoo illa...hmmm,,,aadast bega chochaaa evaga... onderadu bedsheet hodkondu, nande aad sundara kanasugal lokadal bechchage malagtene...!!!
Thursday, June 10, 2010
dayz gone R....
yes. started with some confusion to end. and i think i wil be continuing with also some confusion...!
yes..in my past 23 in that knowingly nearby 17 years of experience...i have understood to some extent what life is...& that also i doubt is t right.
when i was small, i remember, mom use to teach me all the values of world, my sister use to motivate me to study well..(to byheart the things :P) and like wise, some to be desceplened, han, my PT sir use 2 make me, punctual, athletic and what not. I leaned everything, bec tht ws the learning age you see. I took all the things from everybody as if they are the basic things needed to live in life. I percieved that, ok, this is what is right, this what is good...this is what is helpful.
didnt even get the chance to think over my thoughts once again bec my days where goin smoothly except experincing some favourtisms by the teachers.But when i grew...a few more years older...i started realising..that the world is my percieved world...! whatev i learned til today...have to change. You know, people started teaching me...to Change..!:p how could i froget all those things which i learned from my childhood with such great difficulty. I did not. i carried all my values along with me..
dayz passed....
people started praising me...as,,helpful, kind, friendly & with so many adjectives. I was very happy as i could see the results of my hardwork of my childhood! :P But you know...for everything time has to come...& that time came to my life too to teach me something,,,ie. a valuable lesson...& i took it up after many times of rejection.
I learned a lesson to be helpful, ..To be lovable, to be kind, to be good...& so on...ONLY to those who deserve...!
I learned the lesson, that, yes, its notb that all guys are bad,...only a few are so. but its only a few girls are good & all others ar not...!
I learned, the pain of broken love...though i was not in love with any guy...which taught me to be sincere & true in relations which matters lot 4 me..
I learned to maintain my self respect..& to forget all emotions & feelings..which is the main thing which takes us towards destruction...!
there are so many things i learned...I had a tough time when i had2 breakup with some relations,,,But it made me really strong...in the later dayz. im sure, that I would never be hurt for anything, never be distracted, or distressed for anything which may happen 2 me,,,Bec i have gone through it once,,,& i wil challenge it next time...!!!
Now...IM in doubt..confusion...ambiguity...about all my values...which i had learned. i often ask my mom why did u teach me this...which is outdated now. But still not able to giveup them,,as they have deep routed into me...& i think..I will hold on to them...ever...!!!
yes..in my past 23 in that knowingly nearby 17 years of experience...i have understood to some extent what life is...& that also i doubt is t right.
when i was small, i remember, mom use to teach me all the values of world, my sister use to motivate me to study well..(to byheart the things :P) and like wise, some to be desceplened, han, my PT sir use 2 make me, punctual, athletic and what not. I leaned everything, bec tht ws the learning age you see. I took all the things from everybody as if they are the basic things needed to live in life. I percieved that, ok, this is what is right, this what is good...this is what is helpful.
didnt even get the chance to think over my thoughts once again bec my days where goin smoothly except experincing some favourtisms by the teachers.But when i grew...a few more years older...i started realising..that the world is my percieved world...! whatev i learned til today...have to change. You know, people started teaching me...to Change..!:p how could i froget all those things which i learned from my childhood with such great difficulty. I did not. i carried all my values along with me..
dayz passed....
people started praising me...as,,helpful, kind, friendly & with so many adjectives. I was very happy as i could see the results of my hardwork of my childhood! :P But you know...for everything time has to come...& that time came to my life too to teach me something,,,ie. a valuable lesson...& i took it up after many times of rejection.
I learned a lesson to be helpful, ..To be lovable, to be kind, to be good...& so on...ONLY to those who deserve...!
I learned the lesson, that, yes, its notb that all guys are bad,...only a few are so. but its only a few girls are good & all others ar not...!
I learned, the pain of broken love...though i was not in love with any guy...which taught me to be sincere & true in relations which matters lot 4 me..
I learned to maintain my self respect..& to forget all emotions & feelings..which is the main thing which takes us towards destruction...!
there are so many things i learned...I had a tough time when i had2 breakup with some relations,,,But it made me really strong...in the later dayz. im sure, that I would never be hurt for anything, never be distracted, or distressed for anything which may happen 2 me,,,Bec i have gone through it once,,,& i wil challenge it next time...!!!
Now...IM in doubt..confusion...ambiguity...about all my values...which i had learned. i often ask my mom why did u teach me this...which is outdated now. But still not able to giveup them,,as they have deep routed into me...& i think..I will hold on to them...ever...!!!
why do we do MBA i wonder all the time...its common nowadays that all graduates go for this with great curiosity & so on..afterall the same case was with me too before two years...its true tht anything without quality is useless. the same is my education i think..its my badluck, that i was not lucky enough to get in to any top B schools. so, now an unemployed MBA with keeping my eyes all around for a job...
great ambition...many dreams, some goals,,,hmmm....donnooo when all gonna 2 b true..! but as others taught me,,,,just hoping...& hoping...!
great ambition...many dreams, some goals,,,hmmm....donnooo when all gonna 2 b true..! but as others taught me,,,,just hoping...& hoping...!
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