JUST LOVE...!
Would you like to try something that has the potential of altering all your relationships for the better? Start loving for no rational reason. Ignore all your reasons not to love. Just love. Keep loving for as long as you want. See if you can maintain this love feeling while encountering the limitations of other human beings. Set a boundary, and love. Say, "No," and love. Disagree with someone and love. Problem solve with someone you have difficulty with and love. You will learn that you are capable of loving in spite of the limitations around you. You will learn that loving can bring about positive changes that otherwise would never occur. And you will learn the peace and joy that comes with loving.
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(WORDS COPIED...)
Monday, September 27, 2010
Only the ego can be touched. It is very touchy. If somebody just looks at you in a certain way, it is touched. He has not done anything. If somebody smiles a little, it is touched; if somebody just turns his head and does not look at you, it is touched. It is very touchy. It is like a wound, always open, green. You touch it and the pain arises. A single word, a single gesture -- the other may not even be aware of what he has done to you, but he has touched it.
And you always think the other is responsible, that he has wounded you. No, you carry your wound. With the ego your whole being is a wound. And you carry it around. Nobody is interested in hurting you, nobody is positively waiting to hurt you; everybody is engaged in safeguarding his own wound. Who has got the energy? But still it happens, because you are so ready to be wounded, so ready, just waiting on the brink for anything.
You cannot touch a man of Tao. Why? -- because there is no one to be touched. There is no wound. He is healthy, healed, whole. This word 'whole' is beautiful. The word 'heal' comes from 'whole', and the word 'holy' also comes from 'whole'. He is whole, healed, holy.
Be aware of your wound. Don't help it to grow, let it be healed; and it will be healed only when you move to the roots. The less the head, the more the wound will heal -- with no head there is no wound. Live a headless life. Move as a total being, and accept things.
Just for twenty-four hours, try it -- total acceptance, whatsoever happens. Someone insults you, accept it, don't react, and see what happens. Suddenly you will feel an energy flowing in you that you have not felt before. Somebody insults you: you feel weak, you feel disturbed, you start thinking of how to get your revenge. That man has hooked you, and now you will move round and round. For days, nights, months, even years, you will not be able to sleep, you will have bad dreams. People can waste their whole life over a small thing, just because someone insulted them.
Just look back into your past and you will remember a few things. You were a small child and the teacher in the class called you an idiot, and you still remember it and you feel resentment. Your father said something. Your parents have forgotten, and even if you remind them, they will not be able to remember it. Your mother looked at you in a certain way and since then the wound has been there. And it is still open, fresh; if anybody touches it, you will explode.
Don't help this wound to grow. Don't make this wound your soul. Go to the roots, be with the whole. For twenty-four hours, just twenty-four hours, try not to react, not to reject, whatsoever happens.
If someone pushes you and you fall to the ground -- fall! Then get up and go home. Don't do anything about it. If somebody hits you, bow down your head, accept it with gratitude. Go home, don't do anything, just for twenty-four hours. And you will know a new upsurge of energy that you have never known before, a new vitality arising from the roots. And once you know it, once you have tasted it, your life will be different. Then you will laugh at all the foolish things you have been doing, at all the resentments, reactions, revenges, with which you have been destroying yourself.
Nobody else can destroy you except you; nobody else can save you except you.
You are the Krishna and you are the Jesus.
(copied)
And you always think the other is responsible, that he has wounded you. No, you carry your wound. With the ego your whole being is a wound. And you carry it around. Nobody is interested in hurting you, nobody is positively waiting to hurt you; everybody is engaged in safeguarding his own wound. Who has got the energy? But still it happens, because you are so ready to be wounded, so ready, just waiting on the brink for anything.
You cannot touch a man of Tao. Why? -- because there is no one to be touched. There is no wound. He is healthy, healed, whole. This word 'whole' is beautiful. The word 'heal' comes from 'whole', and the word 'holy' also comes from 'whole'. He is whole, healed, holy.
Be aware of your wound. Don't help it to grow, let it be healed; and it will be healed only when you move to the roots. The less the head, the more the wound will heal -- with no head there is no wound. Live a headless life. Move as a total being, and accept things.
Just for twenty-four hours, try it -- total acceptance, whatsoever happens. Someone insults you, accept it, don't react, and see what happens. Suddenly you will feel an energy flowing in you that you have not felt before. Somebody insults you: you feel weak, you feel disturbed, you start thinking of how to get your revenge. That man has hooked you, and now you will move round and round. For days, nights, months, even years, you will not be able to sleep, you will have bad dreams. People can waste their whole life over a small thing, just because someone insulted them.
Just look back into your past and you will remember a few things. You were a small child and the teacher in the class called you an idiot, and you still remember it and you feel resentment. Your father said something. Your parents have forgotten, and even if you remind them, they will not be able to remember it. Your mother looked at you in a certain way and since then the wound has been there. And it is still open, fresh; if anybody touches it, you will explode.
Don't help this wound to grow. Don't make this wound your soul. Go to the roots, be with the whole. For twenty-four hours, just twenty-four hours, try not to react, not to reject, whatsoever happens.
If someone pushes you and you fall to the ground -- fall! Then get up and go home. Don't do anything about it. If somebody hits you, bow down your head, accept it with gratitude. Go home, don't do anything, just for twenty-four hours. And you will know a new upsurge of energy that you have never known before, a new vitality arising from the roots. And once you know it, once you have tasted it, your life will be different. Then you will laugh at all the foolish things you have been doing, at all the resentments, reactions, revenges, with which you have been destroying yourself.
Nobody else can destroy you except you; nobody else can save you except you.
You are the Krishna and you are the Jesus.
(copied)
Friday, September 3, 2010
A Patheticcc Journey...!!!
Hi, Im back with some horrible experiences...in my pocket. I realy feel irritated about our system. Dont understand why people cal it as system when it is not a system. Everything is corrupted here...nothing is fair..nothing you find in white colour....!
Hmmmm...let me come to the point...!
Last week had to go to Bangalore from Mangalore. Booked sleeper seat in "SEA BIRD" bus 6 days before. Got last seat...& god's grace didnt forget to confirm if that seat is good. The very next day mornin i had 2 attend training @ Bangalore. when i went there on the given date & time, here comes the real pathetic experience of me...!
As expected at the given time bus came...named.. SEA BIRD.. I went searchin my seat, which was in last row. I can never forget in my life my experience in tht bus on that day. I had paid 400 Rs. for tht night journey, & they had given me a seat, where water was leakin as if some1 is pourin from upside. Entire bus was stinking like anything. unwashed stinkin bedsheets, ful bedbugs biting you in your jouney....ufffff....horrible.
well, i asked them about othr seat, the people who should be responsible for this bus, didnt know that the bus is leakin when it was a small river inside. !!! & at last the answer was, if u can come, come or else cancel the ticket. How responsible people they are...!. Have to give award for their service. We trust these people & their bus for some emergency commitments & these people are so careless that, they dont even know that they have to give value for the money what they collect...
Then as i had no choice i took one sitting seat,, which was infront of tht sleeper seat...(which ofcourse didnt have pushback)...& choosed to spend one night in SEA BIRD hell.
whole night, water was pouring on me like anything, bed bugs wer biting here & there, swellin on legs, hands bcz of that, stinking smell...& even there was nothing like ladies seats. They had given some seats to gents near ladies ....uffff...horrible journey it was.
Need not mention, it was not only my seat which was leakin, but all but in small. I was the victim for this worst experience...& even none of the seater seats had proper pushbacks.
Whatever may be their problem, when they take money and book the ticket, they have to disclose what problem their bus has got. After all they are not giving the service free of cost. I wish, none of them wil go for this experience,,,& want to give one advertisement about this company to help them either to reduce their business or learn to to be more responsible.
How such people can be so irresponsible i dont understand. When you dont understand the values in life, u have to sit behind four values,. Pleas never come out to trouble others. Business in the form of service has to be with some values. if you are not able to respect your duties and your customer, why the hell you should be in business...why the hell you should have bread with the customers money !!!???
Hmmmm...let me come to the point...!
Last week had to go to Bangalore from Mangalore. Booked sleeper seat in "SEA BIRD" bus 6 days before. Got last seat...& god's grace didnt forget to confirm if that seat is good. The very next day mornin i had 2 attend training @ Bangalore. when i went there on the given date & time, here comes the real pathetic experience of me...!
As expected at the given time bus came...named.. SEA BIRD.. I went searchin my seat, which was in last row. I can never forget in my life my experience in tht bus on that day. I had paid 400 Rs. for tht night journey, & they had given me a seat, where water was leakin as if some1 is pourin from upside. Entire bus was stinking like anything. unwashed stinkin bedsheets, ful bedbugs biting you in your jouney....ufffff....horrible.
well, i asked them about othr seat, the people who should be responsible for this bus, didnt know that the bus is leakin when it was a small river inside. !!! & at last the answer was, if u can come, come or else cancel the ticket. How responsible people they are...!. Have to give award for their service. We trust these people & their bus for some emergency commitments & these people are so careless that, they dont even know that they have to give value for the money what they collect...
Then as i had no choice i took one sitting seat,, which was infront of tht sleeper seat...(which ofcourse didnt have pushback)...& choosed to spend one night in SEA BIRD hell.
whole night, water was pouring on me like anything, bed bugs wer biting here & there, swellin on legs, hands bcz of that, stinking smell...& even there was nothing like ladies seats. They had given some seats to gents near ladies ....uffff...horrible journey it was.
Need not mention, it was not only my seat which was leakin, but all but in small. I was the victim for this worst experience...& even none of the seater seats had proper pushbacks.
Whatever may be their problem, when they take money and book the ticket, they have to disclose what problem their bus has got. After all they are not giving the service free of cost. I wish, none of them wil go for this experience,,,& want to give one advertisement about this company to help them either to reduce their business or learn to to be more responsible.
How such people can be so irresponsible i dont understand. When you dont understand the values in life, u have to sit behind four values,. Pleas never come out to trouble others. Business in the form of service has to be with some values. if you are not able to respect your duties and your customer, why the hell you should be in business...why the hell you should have bread with the customers money !!!???
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